March 16, 2026
Is This Faith… or Just Optimism?
We say it all the time: “I just know it will work out.”
But is that faith… or just optimism?
In this episode, we explore the difference between trusting favorable circumstances and trusting the character of God.
Join me as we continue our series The Language of Faith by exploring a subtle but important distinction many of us overlook: the difference between biblical faith and simple optimism.
Optimism believes things will probably work out.
Faith trusts that God is faithful — even if they don’t.
Through Scripture and real-life reflection, we look at the kind of faith that doesn’t depend on favorable circumstances or positive trends. Instead, it rests on the unchanging character of God.
Because true faith isn’t loud certainty about outcomes.
It’s quiet confidence in the One who holds them.
My Question for You:
When you say you have faith… what are you actually leaning on?
Listen in, reflect, and pay attention to the language shaping your trust.
✨ Encouragement for your spirit. Wisdom for your walk.
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Okay, can I ask you something kind of uncomfortable right out of the gate?
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When was the last time you told someone, it's gonna be fine, I just know it, and you weren't actually sure if it would be or not.
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Maybe you were just trying to comfort a friend, or maybe you were trying to talk yourself down off a ledge.
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Maybe it just felt like the right thing to say in the moment.
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We've all been there, I've been there.
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But here's the thing that's been sitting with me.
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And honestly, it's what this whole series is about.
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Where is that confidence actually coming from?
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Because there's a version of that statement that is rock solid, anchored faith.
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And there's a version of it that's just optimism dressed up like faith.
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And today, we're gonna figure out which one is which.
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Hey, welcome back.
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I'm Melissa, and this is my question for you.
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We are in our series called The Language of Faith, where we're slowing down and actually examining the words we use when we talk about God.
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Because as we said last week, the way we speak about him reveals what we actually believe about him.
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Last week we pulled apart the difference between wishing and hoping, and we found out that biblical hope isn't fragile like a flickering candle.
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It's an anchor.
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So if you miss that one, I want you to go back and start there because it sets up everything we're doing in this series.
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Today, we're taking it one step further.
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Today's question is this is what you're calling faith actually just optimism?
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Okay, so let's just go ahead and name it.
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Most of us use the words faith and optimism kind of interchangeably.
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Like we say we have faith, but what we really mean is I think it'll probably work out.
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And that's not a character flaw.
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That's just human.
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But they are not the same thing, and the difference matters.
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Here it is, as simply as I can put it.
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Optimism believes things will probably work out, but faith believes God is faithful, even if they don't.
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Optimism is rooted in probability, faith is rooted in promise.
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Optimism looks at a situation and says, the odds are good, faith looks at the creator and says, God is good.
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And those two things are just not the same sentence.
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In Hebrews 11, verse 1, we're told that faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.
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I want you to notice something about that definition.
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Notice what's not in it.
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There's no mention of favorable circumstances, no reference to a positive trend, there's no calculation of the likelihood that something is going to work out.
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Faith isn't built on what looks promising.
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It's built on who God has revealed Himself to be.
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Optimism rises and falls with the data, but faith stands even when the data disappears.
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Now, here's where it starts to get real.
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It's pretty easy to say, I have faith when the diagnosis looks manageable, or the job opportunity seems likely, or the door is swinging wide open for you.
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Faith feels natural when things are trending in your direction.
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But what happens when the offer falls through?
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When the relationship starts to strain instead of strengthening, when the answer to your prayer looks completely different than what you asked for, or when it just hasn't come yet.
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That's where optimism starts to wobble because optimism needs evidence to survive.
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Take away that evidence and the confidence crumbles.
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Faith though, faith has a different foundation entirely.
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Think about Abraham for a minute.
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God had promised him something that seemed almost impossible, that he and Sarah would become the parents of a great nation.
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The problem was Abraham was already old.
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Sarah was long past the age when having children was even remotely realistic.
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Years went by and decades, and still no child.
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There was still no evidence that the promise was even unfolding, that God was even moving or anything was happening at all.
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By every human measure, the situation made less sense with time, not more, looked like it was never going to happen.
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But in Romans chapter four, it says he was fully persuaded that God had power to do what he had promised.
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Now, Abraham was not looking at a positive trend.
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If he'd run the numbers and looked at things more carefully, his age, Sarah's age, the decades of silence and waiting with nothing happening, optimism would have packed its bags and left a long time ago.
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But Scripture says he did not waver.
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He wasn't persuaded because the circumstances supported him.
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He was persuaded because the one who made the promise was trustworthy.
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That's not optimism.
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That is anchored conviction.
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And there's a big difference between the two.
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Okay, so this is the part I really want you to hear.
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Because I think this is where a lot of us get quietly tripped up without even realizing it.
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Optimism assumes a preferred outcome.
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Faith entrusts the outcome to God.
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Optimism says, I'm sure this will go my way.
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Faith says, I trust God with whatever unfolds.
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And sometimes, if we're really being honest with ourselves, when we say, I just know this is going to happen, what we actually mean is, I really, really want this to happen.
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Those are not the same thing, even if they feel the same in the moment.
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There's a point in Daniel chapter 3 that I think is one of the most powerful examples of real faith in the entire Bible.
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Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego are standing in front of a literal fiery furnace.
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Like, this is not a metaphor.
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The king is about to throw them into the fire.
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And here's what they say our God is able to save us.
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But even if he does not, we will still serve him.
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Did you catch that?
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Even if he does not, they didn't have a good feeling that they'd walk out without being burned.
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They had something better.
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They had a God they trusted regardless of the outcome.
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That's the even if of faith.
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And it changes everything.
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Optimism says God will get me out of the fire.
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Faith says God is with me in the fire, whether He puts it out or not.
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If my peace depends on the outcome matching my plan, then I wasn't trusting God.
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I was trusting my plan.
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Biblical faith doesn't require guaranteed circumstances, it requires a trustworthy God.
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So practically speaking, what does anchored faith actually sound like on a regular day in a regular conversation?
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It sounds less like certainty about outcomes and more like certainty about character.
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Instead of I know this will work out the way I want, it sounds more like I know God will be faithful in this.
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And instead of I'm not sure that nothing will go wrong.
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It sounds like even if something shifts, God doesn't.
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God is faithful, God stands firm, God stands strong.
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If everything around me is going out of control and my circumstances are beyond anything that I can make sense of, God is my firm anchor.
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That's not pessimism when you start to think, I'm not sure if things will go wrong or not.
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And that's not bracing for the worse.
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That is mature faith when you can keep your eyes on God, even when the wind and the waves around us are blowing like crazy.
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James chapter one tells us that the testing of our faith produces perseverance so that we can be mature and complete.
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Faith that's been tested isn't necessarily louder, it's just steadier.
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It doesn't need to perform its confidence, it rests in it.
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All right, so here's the question I want you to actually sit with this week, because this is the real point of this whole episode.
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When you say you have faith, what are you actually leaning into?
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Is it faith or just optimism?
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Is it that things seem to be trending upward?
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Is it that the odds look good?
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Or is it that you've pictured how this is going to go and it seems reasonable?
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Or is it the unchanging character of God even if the odds were zero?
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Here's the honest truth.
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If your confidence collapses the moment the circumstances shift, what you had was probably optimism.
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But if your truth holds steady even when the picture changes, that's faith.
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And listen, this isn't meant to shame anybody.
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I'm not preaching this to just you.
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I'm preaching this to myself too.
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Optimism isn't bad.
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It's just not enough.
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It can comfort us for a moment, but it cannot sustain us.
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Only faith can do that.
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So here's what I want to leave you with this week.
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I want you to pay attention to yourself.
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Notice when you say, I just know it'll work out.
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And just pause for a second.
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Ask yourself, is this faith or is this optimism?
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And if you find that your confidence has been resting more on your circumstances than on the character of God, don't spiral.
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Don't get upset.
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Don't be hard on yourself.
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Just re-anchor yourself to the Word of God.
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Biblical faith is not loud certainty about the outcome.
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It's quiet, steady confidence in who God is.
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Next week, we're gonna look at another phrase that sounds totally reasonable, but carries a lot of hidden weight.
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That phrase is, I'm just being realistic.
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I'm just being real.
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We're gonna ask whether our realism is sometimes just a cover for something else entirely.
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You're not gonna want to miss this one, so I hope you'll come back and join me as we continue through our series of the language of faith.
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And until then, keep asking, keep listening, and keep examining the language that's shaping your faith.
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Before you go, if today's question stayed with you, I'd love to keep the conversation going.
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Each week, I send a short email called This Week's Question, a Quiet Invitation, and it's a simple reflection to help you stay grounded, to pay attention, to dive deeper into God's Word, and to walk with God throughout your week.
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You can sign up at myquestion for you.com, bringing you encouragement for your spirit and wisdom for your walk.
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