Feb. 23, 2026
What If You’re Overthinking Your Next Step?
You took the leap.
You started the thing.
You had the conversation.
You stepped out of your head and into your life.
And now… you’re stuck again.
Not because you haven’t moved.
But because you’re overthinking what comes next.
In this episode of the UNSTUCK series, we talk about what happens after the beginning — when the adrenaline fades and your mind starts negotiating. Why do we stall after we start? Why do we wait for clarity that may only come after obedience?
Through stories like Abraham walking without a map and the Israelites stepping toward a sea that hadn’t parted yet, we explore the difference between faithful movement and fear disguised as caution.
If you’ve been replaying the same decision in your mind…
If you’re waiting for another sign…
If you know the next step but keep hesitating…
This conversation is for you.
You don’t need the whole plan.
You may just need the next faithful step.
✨ Encouragement for your spirit. Wisdom for your walk.
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Foreign.
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Hey, friend.
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I am so glad you're here.
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Because if you've been walking through this unstuck series with me, you know, we haven't just been talking about change from a safe distance.
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We've been inside it, naming it, challenging it.
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And honestly, sometimes I felt like we were getting a little knocked around by it.
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A few episodes back, we asked whether you were stuck in your head or in your life.
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Then we talked a little bit about what's actually keeping you there.
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And last week, last week, we sat with that strange in between kind of moment.
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We called it that Tuesday morning after the leap, when the excitement settles and real obedience begins.
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We reminded ourselves of that line about God rejoicing just to see the work begin, even when the beginning still feels small and tiny.
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And we held onto the promise that there is a harvest if we don't give up.
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So here you are.
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You moved, you started.
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You're in the field.
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You are right in the middle of it.
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You're actually living inside the thing you once only thought about in your head.
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And now the question shifts.
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It's not, should I leap anymore?
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It's okay.
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Now what?
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Hey, I'm Melissa, and this is my question for you.
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This is a safe space for us to slow down, catch our breath, and step out of your head and into your life one honest, imperfect, faithful step at a time.
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And today, we're asking the question that shapes everything that comes after the big moment.
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What if you're overthinking your next step?
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Okay, let's be honest.
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Beginnings feel good.
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They make us feel bold.
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They feel brave.
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There's momentum and adrenaline and a little bit of sparkle in every new beginning.
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But once we actually get moving, we start to realize the leap didn't magically fix everything.
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Life still feels like life.
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The fears don't just vanish and the path isn't fully lit.
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Things aren't unfolding as quickly as we hoped they would.
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And that's when the negotiations start.
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You know the ones, the quiet internal debates where you question whether the step you took was enough.
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Or you convince yourself you should wait until you're clear when things make more sense.
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Or maybe you decide you need the entire plan laid out perfectly before you even consider moving again.
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That's actually pretty normal.
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It's also one of the biggest reasons we get stuck after the leap, not before it.
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We assume faith means having the whole map, everything laid out.
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But most of the time, faith just means taking the step that's already in front of you.
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We talk about this all the time.
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There's a moment in scripture where Abraham before he's Abraham, actually, when he's still Abram, here's God.
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Leave what's familiar and go to the land.
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I will show you.
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I love that wording.
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Not here's the destination, not here's the strategy, or here's.
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Here's the timeline.
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Just go, I'll show you.
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That's direction without detail.
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And the text simply says, so Abram went.
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He moves without clarity, and he becomes known for his faith, not because he got answers, but because he trusted God enough to walk step by step into a future he couldn't fully see.
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Sometimes clarity meets you in motion.
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Sometimes you don't receive the second step until you've taken the first one.
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Maybe you felt that before something only made sense once you actually started moving toward it.
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Maybe before you were able to take that step, things were still a little fuzzy, but once you found the courage to actually begin to move, things started making sense and falling into place.
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But I want you to hear this, because this matters.
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A faithful next step is not the same thing as an impulsive one.
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We're not talking about blowing up your life because you're uncomfortable.
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And I don't mean reacting emotionally just to feel like we're moving.
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Faithful steps are grounded.
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When Jesus called his first disciples, they weren't acting randomly.
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They were responding to someone they trusted.
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Following Jesus meant learning from him, walking with him, and shaping their lives around him.
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Their movement was relational.
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A faithful next step works the same way.
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It isn't about speed.
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It's about alignment and coming into agreement with God.
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Sometimes you have to ask yourself, is this drawing me closer to God?
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Is it consistent with truth?
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And is this moving me toward responsibility and love, even if it stretches me?
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Those are honest questions that sometimes we have to sit with and ask ourselves when we're trying to make sense in the middle.
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Faithful movement is not usually flashy.
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In fact, it tends to be steady and grounded, shaped more by trust than by reaction.
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So let's step back again.
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Last week we talked about waiting in the quiet middle.
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And waiting can absolutely be faithful.
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There's wisdom in pausing, in listening, and in just being still.
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But there's also that moment in Exodus when the Israelites were trapped between Pharaoh's army and the Red Sea.
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Moses cries out to God, expecting instructions.
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He's crying out in probably the most fearful time of his life, and he's expecting God to respond and tell him exactly what to do.
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And God essentially says, why are you standing there?
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Tell the people to move.
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Because the sea hadn't parted yet.
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Remember, there was no visible path.
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There's no miracle in sight.
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But the movement had to come first.
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And then the waters opened.
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Some seasons require waiting.
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Other seasons require stepping out on faith.
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And sometimes fear disguises itself as caution.
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So ask yourself gently, has God already shown me enough to move?
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If he has, the faithful response may simply be to take the step, even if it feels small.
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Scripture is full of small steps that unlocked God's provision.
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There's the widow that had just enough flour and oil to make one last meal.
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She's exhausted, she's discouraged, she's pretty much given up, and she's preparing for the worst.
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And then she's asked to make bread for someone else first.
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That sounds crazy and a little unreasonable, but she does the one small thing that she can do, and somehow the flower doesn't run out.
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She has enough not only for her guest, but for herself as well.
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And that is the miracle.
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Just being obedient.
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Even when it didn't make sense, it seemed crazy to prepare a meal for a stranger when she needed it for herself and her family.
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And she did it anyway.
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And the provision didn't run out.
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That small step carried her through.
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Another woman was drowning in debt.
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She had almost nothing left except a tiny bit of oil.
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She's told to gather empty jars and to just start pouring.
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Just start pouring what she had, and the oil keeps flowing until every jar is filled.
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These aren't dramatic leaps.
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I'm sharing these stories because they have just small, simple steps to show us that even when we take what might seem like the smallest possible step that we could take ever even imagined to take, it can be enough.
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Because God meets us in that step.
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His provision meets us where we are.
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So although these are small stories, they're also acts of obedience in tight spaces.
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God meets each of these women in the motion.
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What's the small, faithful thing that you can do?
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Even if you can't do everything, there must be some small, simple step that you can take to move forward.
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So maybe your next step looks like finally having the courage to have that conversation that's been sitting in your chest and in your mind for too long, the one that you keep thinking about, what you're going to say, what they're going to say, how it's going to play out.
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Maybe you actually just need to get the courage up to have the conversation and to talk.
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Maybe it's choosing consistency instead of chasing something new just because you're restless.
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Instead of diving from jumping from one thing to the Next and being all over the place.
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Maybe you just need to be consistent and one thing and master it before you move forward or before you quit and give up and look for something new.
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Maybe it's showing up again even when the excitement is gone.
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Or if we want to make it even more practical.
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Maybe it's applying for something that you don't feel like you're ready for, but somehow you can't ignore it.
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Maybe it's a job that's a little bit outside of what you know today, but something that you know in your heart that you can do.
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Do it.
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Apply for it.
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Step out there.
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Be brave.
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Be bold.
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Maybe it's just returning to prayer in a simple, honest way.
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Sometimes we can feel that we are so far from God, that we've messed up too much, that we've fallen too far, that there's no way.
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But.
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But maybe it's just starting with a small prayer.
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Thinking about God saying the name of Jesus throughout your day doesn't have to be anything bold and dramatic just yet, but just being conscious of God and His presence and his faithfulness in your life and coming back to him, even when you feel that you've gone too far, you don't need to make another leap.
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We've already done that.
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We've already taken the first step.
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You need movement.
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Stuckness lives in overthinking.
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Growth lives in action.
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If you're unsure what your next step is, use this as a simple guide.
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I want you to just ask yourself, does this align with what I know to be true about God?
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Does it move me toward truth, responsibility, and love?
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Even if it stretches me, even if I'm out of my comfort zone?
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And then ask the brave question, is my hesitation wisdom, or is it fear?
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Scripture describes God, God's guidance, as a lamp for your feet.
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Lamps don't light the entire room.
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They give you just enough light for the next few steps that are in front of you.
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And if you can see the next right thing, that means you have enough light.
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You don't need certainty.
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You need a willingness, a boldness.
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You need courage.
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Jesus once told a story about three servants that he entrusted with something valuable.
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Two of them put what they were given to work, and one of them buried his out of fear.
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The one who buried it wasn't corrected for failure.
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He was corrected for refusing to act.
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Fear loves to dress itself up as caution.
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Faith requires participation, active participation, a willingness to move.
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God isn't asking you to control the outcome.
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He's inviting you to take the step that's yours and to trust him with the rest.
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So let's bring this home.
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You took a leap.
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Now you're in the middle and you're still showing up.
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Now here's the question that I want you to carry into this week.
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What if you're overthinking your next step?
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What would faithfulness look like, not in theory, but in practice, in your real everyday life?
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You don't need the whole story.
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Trust me when I tell you that you don't need to know the full story from beginning to end.
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You don't need the timeline or the strategy.
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Because if God has given you enough light for just one step, that's enough.
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That step might look like consistency.
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It might require courage, and it might mean choosing honesty or holding on to hope.
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Faith grows in motion.
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Let me say that again.
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Faith grows in motion.
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Peace often finds us while we're walking.
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So take the step you can see.
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Trust that God will meet you there.
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You don't have to rush your future.
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You just have to walk faithfully, one step at a time.
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Starting today and until next time, I want you to please keep asking, keep listening, and keep keep stepping forward, out of your head and into your life.
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Before you go, if today's question stayed with you, I'd love to keep the conversation going.
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Each week I send a short email called this Week's Question A Quiet Invitation, and it's a simple reflection to help you stay grounded, to pay attention, to dive deeper into God's word, and to walk with God throughout your week.
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You can sign up at myquestion for you.com bringing you encouragement for your spirit and wisdom for your walk.
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Sa.
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Foreign.
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Hey, friend.
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I am so glad you're here.
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Because if you've been walking through this unstuck series with me, you know, we haven't just been talking about change from a safe distance.
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We've been inside it, naming it, challenging it.
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And honestly, sometimes I felt like we were getting a little knocked around by it.
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A few episodes back, we asked whether you were stuck in your head or in your life.
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Then we talked a little bit about what's actually keeping you there.
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And last week, last week, we sat with that strange in between kind of moment.
00:01:00.670 --> 00:01:08.269
We called it that Tuesday morning after the leap, when the excitement settles and real obedience begins.
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We reminded ourselves of that line about God rejoicing just to see the work begin, even when the beginning still feels small and tiny.
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And we held onto the promise that there is a harvest if we don't give up.
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So here you are.
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You moved, you started.
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You're in the field.
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You are right in the middle of it.
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You're actually living inside the thing you once only thought about in your head.
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And now the question shifts.
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It's not, should I leap anymore?
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It's okay.
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Now what?
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Hey, I'm Melissa, and this is my question for you.
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This is a safe space for us to slow down, catch our breath, and step out of your head and into your life one honest, imperfect, faithful step at a time.
00:02:11.659 --> 00:02:18.139
And today, we're asking the question that shapes everything that comes after the big moment.
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What if you're overthinking your next step?
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Okay, let's be honest.
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Beginnings feel good.
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They make us feel bold.
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They feel brave.
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There's momentum and adrenaline and a little bit of sparkle in every new beginning.
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But once we actually get moving, we start to realize the leap didn't magically fix everything.
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Life still feels like life.
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The fears don't just vanish and the path isn't fully lit.
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Things aren't unfolding as quickly as we hoped they would.
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And that's when the negotiations start.
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You know the ones, the quiet internal debates where you question whether the step you took was enough.
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Or you convince yourself you should wait until you're clear when things make more sense.
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Or maybe you decide you need the entire plan laid out perfectly before you even consider moving again.
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That's actually pretty normal.
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It's also one of the biggest reasons we get stuck after the leap, not before it.
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We assume faith means having the whole map, everything laid out.
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But most of the time, faith just means taking the step that's already in front of you.
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We talk about this all the time.
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There's a moment in scripture where Abraham before he's Abraham, actually, when he's still Abram, here's God.
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Leave what's familiar and go to the land.
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I will show you.
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I love that wording.
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Not here's the destination, not here's the strategy, or here's.
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Here's the timeline.
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Just go, I'll show you.
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That's direction without detail.
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And the text simply says, so Abram went.
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He moves without clarity, and he becomes known for his faith, not because he got answers, but because he trusted God enough to walk step by step into a future he couldn't fully see.
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Sometimes clarity meets you in motion.
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Sometimes you don't receive the second step until you've taken the first one.
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Maybe you felt that before something only made sense once you actually started moving toward it.
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Maybe before you were able to take that step, things were still a little fuzzy, but once you found the courage to actually begin to move, things started making sense and falling into place.
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But I want you to hear this, because this matters.
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A faithful next step is not the same thing as an impulsive one.
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We're not talking about blowing up your life because you're uncomfortable.
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And I don't mean reacting emotionally just to feel like we're moving.
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Faithful steps are grounded.
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When Jesus called his first disciples, they weren't acting randomly.
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They were responding to someone they trusted.
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Following Jesus meant learning from him, walking with him, and shaping their lives around him.
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Their movement was relational.
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A faithful next step works the same way.
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It isn't about speed.
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It's about alignment and coming into agreement with God.
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Sometimes you have to ask yourself, is this drawing me closer to God?
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Is it consistent with truth?
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And is this moving me toward responsibility and love, even if it stretches me?
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Those are honest questions that sometimes we have to sit with and ask ourselves when we're trying to make sense in the middle.
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Faithful movement is not usually flashy.
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In fact, it tends to be steady and grounded, shaped more by trust than by reaction.
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So let's step back again.
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Last week we talked about waiting in the quiet middle.
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And waiting can absolutely be faithful.
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There's wisdom in pausing, in listening, and in just being still.
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But there's also that moment in Exodus when the Israelites were trapped between Pharaoh's army and the Red Sea.
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Moses cries out to God, expecting instructions.
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He's crying out in probably the most fearful time of his life, and he's expecting God to respond and tell him exactly what to do.
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And God essentially says, why are you standing there?
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Tell the people to move.
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Because the sea hadn't parted yet.
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Remember, there was no visible path.
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There's no miracle in sight.
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But the movement had to come first.
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And then the waters opened.
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Some seasons require waiting.
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Other seasons require stepping out on faith.
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And sometimes fear disguises itself as caution.
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So ask yourself gently, has God already shown me enough to move?
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If he has, the faithful response may simply be to take the step, even if it feels small.
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Scripture is full of small steps that unlocked God's provision.
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There's the widow that had just enough flour and oil to make one last meal.
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She's exhausted, she's discouraged, she's pretty much given up, and she's preparing for the worst.
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And then she's asked to make bread for someone else first.
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That sounds crazy and a little unreasonable, but she does the one small thing that she can do, and somehow the flower doesn't run out.
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She has enough not only for her guest, but for herself as well.
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And that is the miracle.
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Just being obedient.
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Even when it didn't make sense, it seemed crazy to prepare a meal for a stranger when she needed it for herself and her family.
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And she did it anyway.
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And the provision didn't run out.
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That small step carried her through.
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Another woman was drowning in debt.
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She had almost nothing left except a tiny bit of oil.
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She's told to gather empty jars and to just start pouring.
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Just start pouring what she had, and the oil keeps flowing until every jar is filled.
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These aren't dramatic leaps.
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I'm sharing these stories because they have just small, simple steps to show us that even when we take what might seem like the smallest possible step that we could take ever even imagined to take, it can be enough.
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Because God meets us in that step.
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His provision meets us where we are.
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So although these are small stories, they're also acts of obedience in tight spaces.
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God meets each of these women in the motion.
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What's the small, faithful thing that you can do?
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Even if you can't do everything, there must be some small, simple step that you can take to move forward.
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So maybe your next step looks like finally having the courage to have that conversation that's been sitting in your chest and in your mind for too long, the one that you keep thinking about, what you're going to say, what they're going to say, how it's going to play out.
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Maybe you actually just need to get the courage up to have the conversation and to talk.
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Maybe it's choosing consistency instead of chasing something new just because you're restless.
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Instead of diving from jumping from one thing to the Next and being all over the place.
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Maybe you just need to be consistent and one thing and master it before you move forward or before you quit and give up and look for something new.
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Maybe it's showing up again even when the excitement is gone.
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Or if we want to make it even more practical.
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Maybe it's applying for something that you don't feel like you're ready for, but somehow you can't ignore it.
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Maybe it's a job that's a little bit outside of what you know today, but something that you know in your heart that you can do.
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Do it.
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Apply for it.
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Step out there.
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Be brave.
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Be bold.
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Maybe it's just returning to prayer in a simple, honest way.
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Sometimes we can feel that we are so far from God, that we've messed up too much, that we've fallen too far, that there's no way.
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But.
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But maybe it's just starting with a small prayer.
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Thinking about God saying the name of Jesus throughout your day doesn't have to be anything bold and dramatic just yet, but just being conscious of God and His presence and his faithfulness in your life and coming back to him, even when you feel that you've gone too far, you don't need to make another leap.
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We've already done that.
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We've already taken the first step.
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You need movement.
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Stuckness lives in overthinking.
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Growth lives in action.
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If you're unsure what your next step is, use this as a simple guide.
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I want you to just ask yourself, does this align with what I know to be true about God?
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Does it move me toward truth, responsibility, and love?
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Even if it stretches me, even if I'm out of my comfort zone?
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And then ask the brave question, is my hesitation wisdom, or is it fear?
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Scripture describes God, God's guidance, as a lamp for your feet.
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Lamps don't light the entire room.
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They give you just enough light for the next few steps that are in front of you.
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And if you can see the next right thing, that means you have enough light.
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You don't need certainty.
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You need a willingness, a boldness.
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You need courage.
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Jesus once told a story about three servants that he entrusted with something valuable.
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Two of them put what they were given to work, and one of them buried his out of fear.
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The one who buried it wasn't corrected for failure.
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He was corrected for refusing to act.
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Fear loves to dress itself up as caution.
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Faith requires participation, active participation, a willingness to move.
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God isn't asking you to control the outcome.
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He's inviting you to take the step that's yours and to trust him with the rest.
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So let's bring this home.
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You took a leap.
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Now you're in the middle and you're still showing up.
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Now here's the question that I want you to carry into this week.
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What if you're overthinking your next step?
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What would faithfulness look like, not in theory, but in practice, in your real everyday life?
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You don't need the whole story.
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Trust me when I tell you that you don't need to know the full story from beginning to end.
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You don't need the timeline or the strategy.
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Because if God has given you enough light for just one step, that's enough.
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That step might look like consistency.
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It might require courage, and it might mean choosing honesty or holding on to hope.
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Faith grows in motion.
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Let me say that again.
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Faith grows in motion.
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Peace often finds us while we're walking.
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So take the step you can see.
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Trust that God will meet you there.
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You don't have to rush your future.
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You just have to walk faithfully, one step at a time.
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Starting today and until next time, I want you to please keep asking, keep listening, and keep keep stepping forward, out of your head and into your life.
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Before you go, if today's question stayed with you, I'd love to keep the conversation going.
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Each week I send a short email called this Week's Question A Quiet Invitation, and it's a simple reflection to help you stay grounded, to pay attention, to dive deeper into God's word, and to walk with God throughout your week.
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Sa.
